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Post by chrissss on Jan 20, 2008 9:17:26 GMT 8
eddie was supposed to do it... remove this if he did.... well this thread we shall dig into the UNKNOWN, BLACK HOLE, PARALLEL UNIVERSE OF MANKIND, THE UNCERTAIN UNCERTAINTY OF A WOMANS EMOTIONAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL... EVERYTHINGAL...
are we actually so different from the opposite sex....?
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Post by Timothy on Jan 20, 2008 19:02:51 GMT 8
dude, they are so not diff from us man, they jus have diff thinkin and all, so when a guy find it hard to please a girl and all they will say they are from another planet. so yeah, we are very much alike, a girls go through tat thing once a month but we dun and tat might affect them and all. haha. hope this helps (=
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Post by d-wayne on Jan 20, 2008 19:44:30 GMT 8
... true true but in a way women are different.for one they are different gender from guys haha they are usually quiet and shy (USUALLY) while guys are more loud and rough but the similarities are they are that we all have almost the same mindset like getting good grades and excelling in activities and stuff like that...( not sure if true haha )
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Post by ballistica on Jan 20, 2008 23:18:05 GMT 8
Let me give you from the perspective none other than a woman herself.
Well, basically, women are naturally more 'feelable' beings as compared to men who are naturally made for battle - always conquering in nature. Well, just what i observed, don't you usually fight and bicker who's better? yeah, that's one of men's conquering traits.
Quoting from the book Captivating, 'Our feminine heart has been created with the greatest of all possible dignities - as a reflection of God's own heart.' Thus women are created to reflect God's heart. Whereas men, they are created to reflect God's strength. Thus, men are usually to provide their physical strength to their damsels in distress.
Let's take a look at the scenario of a hero and the damsel in distress, the hero (like men who seeks something to conquer - winning the hearts of their women) saves the damsel in distress (the women who long for men to fight for them). It's a typically cliche fairytale plot, but what's a hero without a damsel to fight for? Such lonely battles. Well look at those movies, Troy, 300, they all have women in them playing a significant role, emotional and spiritual support encouragement perhaps?
But that doesn't mean that men should just offer their physical strength to their women; they do need to feel loved and needed. Well just from a personal perspective, I as a woman would love to hear mini compliments, as a child, girls would often question and ask, am I lovely? Hoping that that will be answered. That's why girls play dress up with their mothers' clothes whereas, guys prepare for their 'mini battles' using mattresses and whatever they could find as a gun in their rooms.
I would say most women are emotionally-oriented, they rule more with their heart then their heads. Of course overtime, they try to balance out and there are obviously exceptions. Remember they are a reflection of God's heart. Another quote from the same book, "You [We] speak to the world of God's mercy, mystery, beauty, and his desire for intimate relationship." We are here to keep relationships alive since we are such emotional beings, that's why women engage and care a lot of relational issues, and even gossip about other's relationships although it isn't related to them at all.
Right, of course there are exceptions to these statements made, thus, it is mention as a general point of view unless stated otherwise.
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Post by eddinelious on Jan 21, 2008 0:33:23 GMT 8
I didnt started it cause i was hesitant in doing so, cause i was afraid some peeps might get affected by it.haha. apparently it looks alright.
Nice one julia! really good insight!
Well, i would say woman totally thinks directly the opposite of a man. hence this is a world of difference. man would do anything irrationally, while woman will think thrice. man are easy going and would more or less settle for everything, hence not so much a perfectionist(talking about the generic man here). But the woman is more of a perfectionist in most sense.
And one most important thing is woman tend to be wayy sensitive. ok remember i said woman's like a literature book, she would analyze every word a person say or being said, while he would pretty much use anything that is lingering on the top of his dome.
some differences actually. there are more though. i m too tired to list them. sorry gals and guys i didnt mean to hurt any in my post.ha
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Post by Timothy on Jan 21, 2008 18:42:26 GMT 8
haha, girls are so diff from guys? tats cool, but everyone has their own mindset wad, like u see gals u wanna be guys and guys wanna be gal? how do u explain tat? it could be infleunce and all but wad is the main reason. haha.
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Post by eddinelious on Jan 21, 2008 19:00:21 GMT 8
err those peeps are weird man. not all wanna be a girl or a guy man. we are talking generically and according to how God want us to be. completing the lost rib.
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Post by Timothy on Jan 21, 2008 19:42:13 GMT 8
yeah man , those are wierd, anyways i still dun tink tat gals are opposite, it might be due to the long term saying tat has warped out minds into thinking like this.
convince me man!! haha
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Post by d-wayne on Jan 21, 2008 21:31:19 GMT 8
wads to convince man. u should listen to ed cos what he said is mainly true... if u had a girlfriend/boyfriend u would surely noe haha anyways ed has a feminine side so u should listen haha
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Post by Timothy on Jan 21, 2008 21:45:20 GMT 8
basket u like it when ed turns to his gal side rite? dun make fun of him alrdy lah basket. Anyways, yeah gals shud have diff mindset cos they are more self-aware of themselves den guys, guys usually do and regret? and gals tink before they do. haha true? correct me if i am wrong.
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Post by chrissss on Jan 22, 2008 0:40:37 GMT 8
disregarded............ difference is exponentially different, no matter how in touch a man is with his feeling, it does not equal or even compare to a womans being. being a supportive, motherly, and everything parallel to a mans duty, yet they strive so hard to be equal to the respect of a man...
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Post by Timothy on Jan 22, 2008 15:15:02 GMT 8
haha yeah, its the media man. it's life man, guys and gals go through diff cycles of life tat's why. they get more emotional and all at diff stages during their lives, so when a guy finds it hard to please the gal, he'll say tat she is diff same goes for everything, u want ur gf to like the same things as u and when she disagrees, u will say tat she is diff. it might be a 'i want face so i say this' thing. cos u see rite, SOME women think tat men are jus filthy beings and all. they noe tat we are of the same speices and all, so they dun want other ppl to indentify them as 'men' so they are trying to stand up for themselves and say they are diff?
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Post by chrissss on Jan 22, 2008 16:07:08 GMT 8
hmmmmm interesting
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Post by Ben on Jan 23, 2008 11:25:44 GMT 8
well possibly, at the way things are going more and more ppl are rebelling against the norm, and then things will get more complicated. so we should keep it simple. women and men in my opinion are different, pretty different actually. to me is the approach they take, like julia said females are more emotional and guys are not so, generally speaking, of course there're exceptions, but honestly i can't care less. men are meant to love women like god intended that's the way it gone be for the rest of time. the most important thing is finding the right one which God has reserved for you, if you are not called to be a priest that is.
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Post by Timothy on Jan 23, 2008 15:02:11 GMT 8
haha yeah, oh, so god chose our gf of bf for us alrdy? haha, cool sia, chris sure dun have. haha joking. but yeah, i dun tink tat there is any much diff between guys and gals, like u see, gals were made from a part of the guys? so they are like us? some guys do tend to more emotional den gals at some point of time
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